I climb the porch steps of Pete and June’s yellow house, greeted by a row of tomatoes and acorn squash sunning themselves on the painted railing. I comment on the bounty and Pete tells me he dropped off nine bags of tomatoes on the porches of his neighbors yesterday. Just set them down and walked away. “They know,” he says simply.
I’m here to sit in their living room and just be with them—one of my favorite couples. They’re celebrating 69 years of marriage this weekend, and I want to hear their story. How do you do it, make it to 69 years?

I’m out back behind the shed, sitting on a pile of dirt. I did a snake check before I sat, not that there ever are snakes but there was one, once, in my garage, and if I was him this back corner of the yard is where I’d take a morning nap. And I don’t want to be the one to wake him up.
She smiles the whole time, even as cancer ravages her body. She smiles and sings. Her smile is alight with hope as she gazes on us from her front stoop, backlit by the warmth of her home.